1790 - النَّهيُ عن هِجرَةِ الأخِ فَوقَ ثَلاثٍ‏

1790. THE PROHIBITION OF FORSAKING A BROTHER FOR MORE THAN THREE DAYS

6347.رسولُ اللَّهِ صلى اللَّه عليه وآله : لا هِجرَةَ فَوقَ ثَلاثٍ .¹

6347.The Prophet (SAWA) said, 'Forsaking [one's brother] for more than three days is not allowed.' ²

6348.رسولُ اللَّهِ صلى اللَّه عليه وآله : لا يَحِلُّ للمُؤمنِ أن يَهجُرَ أخاهُ فَوقَ ثَلاثَةِ أيّامٍ .³

6348.The Prophet (SAWA) said, 'It is not permitted for a believer to desert his brother for more than three days.' ⁴

6349.رسولُ اللَّهِ صلى اللَّه عليه وآله: لا تَحِلُّ الهِجرَةُ فَوقَ ثَلاثَةِ أيّامٍ ، فإنِ التَقَيا فسَلَّمَ أحَدُهُما فَرَدَّ الآخَرُ اشتَرَكا في الأجرِ ، وإن لَم يَرُدَّ بَرِئَ هذا مِن الإثمِ ، وباءَ بهِ الآخَرُ .⁵

6349.The Prophet (SAWA) said, 'Deserting [one's brother] for more than three days is not allowed, and if they meet thereafter and one of them greets the other, and he returns the greeting, they will both share the reward. But if he does not return the greeting, the person who greeted is cleared of sin, and will take the reward alone.' ⁶

6350.رسولُ اللَّهِ صلى اللَّه عليه وآله : لا تَدابَرُوا، ولا تَقاطَعُوا، وكُونوا عِبادَ اللَّهِ إخواناً ، هَجرُ المُؤمنَينِ ثَلاثاً ، فإن تَكَلَّما وإلّا أعرَضَ اللَّهُ عَزَّوجلَّ عَنهُما حتّى‏ يَتَكلَّما .⁷

6350.The Prophet (SAWA) said, 'Do not turn your backs to each other and do not cut ties amongst yourselves, and be servants of Allah as brothers. Deserting a believer for [more than] three days [is not allowed] and they must speak [thereafter], but if they do not Allah Almighty turns away from them until they speak.' ⁸

6351.رسولُ اللَّهِ صلى اللَّه عليه وآله : أيُّما مُسلِمَينِ تَهاجَرا فمَكَثا ثَلاثاً لا يَصطَلِحانِ إلّا كانا خارِجَينِ مِن الإسلامِ ، ولَم يَكُن بَينَهُما وَلايَةٌ ، فأيُّهُما سَبَقَ إلى‏ كلامِ أخيهِ كانَ السّابِقَ إلَى الجَنَّةِ يَومَ الحِسابِ .⁹

6351.The Prophet (SAWA) said, 'No sooner do two Muslims forsake each other and stay like that for three days without reconciling, then they are regarded as having left Islam and there is no relation between them. Whoever of them precedes in speaking to his brother will precede entrance into Heaven on the Day of Judgment.' ¹⁰

6352.الإمامُ الباقرُ عليه السلام : ما مِن مُؤمنَينِ اهتَجَرا فَوقَ ثَلاثٍ إلّا وَبَرِئتُ مِنهُما في الثّالِثَةِ ، فقيلَ لَهُ : يابنَ رسولِ اللَّهِ ، هذا حالُ الظّالِمِ فما بالُ المَظلومِ ؟ فقالَ عليه السلام: ما بالُ المَظلومِ لا يَصيرُ إلَى الظّالِمِ فيَقولُ : أنا الظّالِمُ ، حتّى‏ يَصطَلِحا ؟!¹¹

6352.Imam al-Baqir (AS) said, 'Any two believers who forsake each other for more than three days, I disassociate myself from them on the third day.' He was asked, 'O son of the Prophet, this is in regard to the one wronging, but what about the wronged?' He (SAWA) said, 'Well why doesn't the wronged one himself go to the wronger and say, 'I am in the wrong, until they reconcile?!' ¹²